Monday, December 31, 2012
The Face of Birth (DVD)
Sunday, December 30, 2012
Big Boy Beanie
For about 6-8 weeks now we've been down to one breastfeed a day, the pre-bedtime feed. It's a token feed, most days just half a minute each side. And we're both okay with that. A couple of months ago I encouraged him to to drop the very early morning feed. It was just one of those weird pregnancy things, I couldn't stand the feeling of him breastfeeding and that morning feed was more than I could take. We had some extra cuddle time and after a week or so he forgot to even ask for boobies. Who knows what will happen after Baby Bear is born, either way it's okay.
And tonight is Beanie's second night sharing a room with his brothers. They're all coping fine with the move. Beanie's been sleeping through the night consistently for about 6 months now and able to settle himself to sleep for about 4 months, only needing to sleep in our bed when sick or early in the morning when The OH and I were trying to have a sleep in. I think I'm finding it harder to adjust than he is (Beanie is absolutely thrilled to be in with his brothers and keeps telling me that he's a big boy now). Me, on the other hand, I'm so used to having a baby next to me, whether snuggled up next to me in bed or in a cot pushed up against our bed. And there's actually less bed-space with Beanie gone. With the cot right up against our bed, I had a doona and pillows packed into the space in between with a sheet firmly tucked over everything so there were no gaps. It added a good extra 20-odd cm to our queen sized bed and without the cot there I now find myself nearly rolling off the edge of the mattress in the middle of the night!
But now I have space in our bedroom to get the bassinette set up; to get the newborn clothes and nappies washed and put away; to put together my box of homebirth supplies. And I'm really excited. Crazy as it may be, I'm looking forward to experiencing labour again, looking forward to welcoming and embracing the contractions that will bring our little boy earthside. I am sad/happy/grateful because pregnancy #11 will be our last one. And I can't wait to be able to cuddle my little Baby Bear and to breathe in deep his sweet newborn baby smell. :x
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Waiting For A Sunny Day
Shmoo and The OH put together the little solar powered rainbow maker today, one of our Christmas 'family' gifts (ordered through one of those fundraising catalogues during the year). It's stuck up on our kitchen window now. Just have to wait for a nice sunny day to get some direct sunlight shining through those crystals! :)
Tuesday, December 25, 2012
Merry Christmas
Dear Mum...
No, I will not force my son to have a haircut. Yes, he is just a young child, what's your point? That his desire to have long hair doesn't matter, that his opinion is unimportant? Well guess what - what he wants is important to him and me! And it's just hair FFS. And unlike some mothers, I'm happy to let my kids find out who they are for themselves and not try and force them into some stupid socially acceptable, one size fits all mould.
I think my son looks gorgeous, long hair or short. And, personally, I find your attitude completely offensive (yet again). So what if he has long hair; so what if I let him wear pink or nail polish. You're shocked and horrified that "he looks like a hippie or... or a...". Or a what? You can't even bring yourself to say it. A girl? Oh my goodness, what will other people think of me, his mother?! You know what? I don't care! 8-|
I am so glad we live at the opposite ends of the country (you don't think that was a coincidence, do you?).
And you've met him, spent time with him, talked with him. Yes, he's on the autism spectrum. No, there's nothing wrong with him. He is who he is and we love and respect him. We're not out to 'fix' him.
Your parenting advice is neither wanted or needed. Ever wonder why practically everything I do as a parent is what you never were to me? You've been a fine example of how not to parent a child. Did you know that one of my biggest fears is that I'll end up just like you? It's taken my psychologist a long time to convince me that I won't.
Yeah, merry Christmas to you too. And thanks for trying to guilt-trip me again. Whatever. But, honestly and sincerely, thank you for reminding me that I'm not you.
Monday, December 24, 2012
Letter to Santa
Thank you once again for what I'm sure will be some wonderful stocking-fillers for the kids. I know we can always count on you to avoid the plastic, battery-operated toys. ;)
I know we usually leave a plate of biscuits as a snack for you but things have been a little busy this year so we whipped up a quick chocolate cake this afternoon. It turned out pretty well, if I do say so myself, so I hope you enjoy the big slice we've left out for you. The chocolate butter icing got rave reviews from the kids and The OH. The OH says it tastes like Lindt chocolate. It's made from fresh homemade butter, the cream lovingly churned, none of that store-bought stuff. Okay, okay, I'll admit, it was meant to be chocolate whipped cream but I was trying to make dinner at the same time and somehow cream turned into butter. Oops. But it's pretty tasty, don't you think?
I do hope you have a smooth run tonight and that you get some R&R before next Christmas.
xx
PS. There's heaps of cake left in the fridge so feel free to take some home for Mrs. C. Shmoo also poured a glass of milk for you but there's some very yummy apple and apple & raspberry water kefir in the fridge if you'd prefer.
PPS. If you see the Tooth Fairy while doing your rounds, could you please thank her for us for working Christmas Eve. We hope that she gets a nice Christmas bonus... I know we've certainly kept her busy over the last few weeks. Shmoo was most grateful for the surprise pre-bedtime tooth exchange and loves the Japanese-style doll keyring that she left him. He hopes that she finds a good use for his tooth.
I Love...
Saturday, December 22, 2012
Ugh...
Shmoo didn't like his and chose to discreetly spit the remains into a serviette (I must admit, I was quite pleased when he did!). Both Loo and Beanie happily consumed theirs. Unfortunately, within minutes Loo had rashed up around his mouth, over his chest, neck and behind his ears; and his behaviour quickly became aggressive. One gumball, that's all it took. No doubt those gumballs contained all manner of nasty colours, flavours and preservatives. As to what was different compared to the stuff he ate a few days ago - who knows. When they were offered more gumballs later in the evening I did say no thanks and luckily none of the boys minded at all.
The poor boy is still rashy and itchy today. And I'm trying not to let the mama-guilt get too out of control *sigh* :(
And I really do need to get a fresh bottle of Phenergan to carry around with us. It's been so long since we've needed it.
Thursday, December 20, 2012
White Wine In The Sun (Tim Minchin)
Boobies
Beanie: Mummy, are these my boobies?
Me: Gonna tickle you... tickle tickle! *lame attempt at distraction*
Beanie: *frustrated at being brushed off* Mama! Are these my boobies?
Me: *very quietly* Um, erm, yes??
Beanie: Mama! ARE THESE MY BOOBIES?!
Me: *absolutely mortified and unsure if he just didn't hear me or was unsatisfied with my answer* Um, no?
Beanie: Mummy, but why aren't these my boobies? Mummy? Mama!! Aren't these my boobies?!
Cringe. No, Beanie, they're my boobies and we share them but I'm not entirely comfortable having a loud discussion about them in front of a dozen of strangers. But, flustered and under pressure, do you think I could think of a concise way to say it that would be satisfactory to my 2 year old?
Yet another one of those embarrassing moments that come with parenting a toddler. You'd think I'd be used to it by now.
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Secular Christmas Songs
- We Wish You a Merry Christmas (Sesame Street)
- Winter Wonderland (Bing Crosby)
- The Christmas Song (Nat King Cole)
- Twelve Days of Christmas (John Denver)
- Santa Baby (Eartha Kitt)
- Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer (KidSongs)
- Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree (Brenda Lee)
- Let it Snow! (Bing Crosby)
- Jingle Bells (The Wiggles)
- Santa Clause is Coming to Town (Frank Sinatra)
- Go Santa Go (The Wiggles)
- All I Want for Christmas is You (Mariah Carey)
- Frosty the Snowman (Bing Crosby)
- Jingle Bell Rock (The Wiggles)
- White Christmas (Perry Como)
- It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year (Andy Williams)
- Sleigh Ride (Sesame Street)
- Silver Bells (Bing Crosby)
- Deck the Halls (Christmas Party Singers)
- Twelve Days of Christmas (Sesame Street)
- I'll Be Home for Christmas (Bing Crosby)
- White Wine in the Sun (Tim Minchin)
- Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas (Kermit the Frog)
- Happy Christmas (War is Over) (John Lennon)
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Karate
Excited...
I managed to score 3 x 36 packs of Lyra Groove pencils on Fishpond at a bargain price. So excited that they'll have all of those lovely shades to choose from. And the Stockmar block crayons are from Rainbow Tree... I love those crayons. The quality is amazing and they last forever. We've got a few from a little set that I bought when Shmoo was a toddler and they're still going strong (trust me, with 3 kids they've certainly been tested to the limit!). And the gorgeous, colourful crayon cases/holders that they're in were made by the very talented Allana over at High Maintenance Hippy. They fold in half, book-style, and can be hung from a hook when not in use. Pretty cool, huh?!
Sugar Overload
Friday, December 14, 2012
The Joy of Giving
Shmoo's old enough now to know how fortunate we are; we don't have much but we have so much more than many other people. With Christmas fast approaching, we have been discussing how some people will go without; how some people won't get presents; how some parents might not have enough money to buy their children gifts for Christmas; how some people may be lonely/sad/hungry at a special time of year that should be about love/joy/family.
Whilst next year we will be reconsidering the organisation that we go through (we would prefer a non-religious group), this year we continued our tradition of giving to the Kmart/Salvation Army Wishing Tree Appeal. As usual we just give a couple of gift cards and don't specify age or gender on the tag so that it can be given to whoever needs it most. This year Shmoo contributed $5 of his own savings. He did it joyfully with absolutely no hesitation; glad to be able to do something, give something, that might make someone else happy. I am so proud of him. I can tell that he gets it.
One of our projects for next year will be for the kids to make some small crafty items throughout the year, I'm thinking maybe some mini Waldorf-style kite paper window stars. They are colourful, cheery, simple and cheap to make. With a little practice the older two should easily be able to make them themselves. And then next Christmas we can give them away. We'll see what organisations we come across throughout the year and were thinking there are also people in aged care homes or people who are in hospital over Christmas.
Saturday, December 8, 2012
Water Kefir - What's Keeping Our Grains Happy
As it turns out, they're hardy little things and seem to be very tolerant. Maybe I just bought happy, healthy grains to start with. Maybe it's just something in our water. Either way, they're making wonderful kefir and are growing at an amazing rate. So I thought I'd share the basic recipe that I've settled on (cobbled together from recipes found on various websites) to keep our grains happy...
Basic Water Kefir Recipe*
6-7 cp water
Scant 1/4 cp white sugar
Scant 1/4 cp jaggery
1/8 tsp bicarb soda
1/2 tsp blackstrap molasses
2 tsp maple syrup
3/4-1 cp water kefir grains
2 slices unpeeled lemon
Now, specifically... The water - I use the water we regularly use, our filtered bore water. The mineral content of our water is quite high (and on the acidic side) and if we didn't filter it then maybe I wouldn't add the bicarb/molasses/maple syrup but we choose to filter so I add those things. I put the sugars into a heatproof jug and then add cup or 2 of hot water to dissolve. I try not to have it too hot as I'm not sure if the heat negatively affects the minerals in the jaggery (as that's the whole point of using jaggery, the mineral content). The rest of the water I add is cool/cold so that it brings everything to a barely lukewarm temp (do not add kefir grains to hot water!). I pour it into the Fido jar after I've added the cold water so as not to end up with cracked jars.
The sugars/molasses - If I've already got enough kefir brewed and I just need to store the grains in the fridge for a few days so that the grains aren't multiplying like crazy, then I'll use a little more jaggery and a little less of the white sugar. If I'm brewing specifically to make a drink then I'll use a little more white sugar than jaggery and I omit the molasses (just for a milder tasting drink).
The lemon - I didn't initially use lemon for the first few brews but I kept coming across sites that mentioned how important it was for the pH balance of the water. We've always got lemons here so no biggy, I throw in a slice or two at the end. I don't add any other fruit to the first ferment, preferring to leave the flavourings until the second ferment... I don't want to risk damaging the grains.
I make it all in a Fido jar (I just throw in the ingredients now that I've got a feel for it, definitely don't need to bother with super-accurate measurements!). I was never really comfortable with the idea of making it in an 'open' (cloth-covered) jar so, as I mentioned here, I was glad to come across others who make it in a Fido jar as well. It turns out that, like lacto-fermented vegetables and unlike kombucha, kefir is an anaerobic ferment, so making it in proper pickling or Fido jars is best. So far I've had no issues with exploding jars, they seem to be able to release a certain amount of pressure and, just in case, I sometimes gently lift the jar by the lid which shifts the lid enough to allow a little more gas to escape. Of course, you may have to be more careful depending on how active your kefir grains are and if you live in a warmer climate. The only thing we've ever had explode was a swing top bottle and that didn't even have kefir in it, just soapy water.
A first ferment of 18-24 hours is working for us at the moment (the liquid has changed to a lighter colour and the grains have eaten up a lot of the sugar). It is summer here now and, even with our cooler climate, our kitchen gets quite warm so the grains get active quickly. I keep the jar on our kitchen table but if it's getting close to that 18-24 hour point and I'm busy then I'll pop the jar into the fridge to slow the grains down until I get a chance to strain and bottle. I expect it will take a bit longer to ferment in winter though.
I strain the grains out and funnel directly into 1L swing top bottles using a nifty 2-in-1 stainless steel funnel. I add in whatever flavourings we're using and then put the bottles straight into the fridge. If I wanted to increase the B-vitamins and carbonation (and if I wasn't so concerned with raising the alcohol content) then I'd leave the bottles out at room temp for a second ferment of another 12-24 hours but the main thing for us is the probiotics and it has enough fizz for us after the first ferment (and my kids can be unruly enough as it is without adding alcohol to the mix ;) ). It does keep fermenting in the fridge anyway, just at a slower rate. Because of this, you can also top up the bottle with a small amount of plain water if you need to and after a day or two, even in the fridge, it will be nice and fizzy. If you're concerned about exploding bottles, just open the bottle briefly every couple of days.
The strained out grains then get a quick rinse (I just pour a bit a clean water over when they're in the strainer and sometimes use the rinse water to top up the swing top bottles) and added to a fresh jar of sugar water. It's then stored in the fridge until I need to make more water kefir (I had some grains in the fridge for 3 weeks when Baby Bear had surgery and they were fine even after all that time; however when we had to leave them for 4 weeks I came close to losing them and it took a couple of batches for them to perk up again). Extra grains are either composted or fed to the cats; or mixed in to small portions of jelly for
Flavourings - our favourites have been the fresh fruit juices. I've never really liked the taste of dried fruits but lots of people seem to like using them to add flavour. The kids generally prefer a fairly strong fruity flavour so I add about 3/4-1 cup of fresh juice (strained through a reasonably fine strainer) to about 1L of kefir. I also tend to add a little extra sugar mixed in with the juice, maybe only a couple of teaspoons up to a tablespoon, depending on the natural sweetness of the fruit used. Cutting the sugar back gradually as the kids get used to it (The OH and I prefer it much less sweet than the kids do). If you prefer a milder flavour you could just add chopped fresh, dried or frozen fruit to the second ferment. Be careful though as sometimes having actual fruit bits in there makes it fizz a bit more and may increase the risks of explosions if you use airtight bottles/jars.
Strawberry Lemonade - our absolute fave so far. Delish! Lemon juice mixed with pureed strawberries (don't forget to strain before adding it to the kefir though!). Seriously yummy.
Strawberry - just pureed strawberries. The kids really liked this.
Orange Juice - another one the kids quite liked.
Ruby/Pink Grapefruit - one of my faves. Refreshing and not too sweet.
Ruby Orange - Ruby grapefruit and orange juice combo.
Lychee - just using the syrup from tinned lychees.
Passionfruit - Fresh passionfruit is a bit exxy at the moment so I just used tinned. Yum! Refreshing and summery.
Raspberry - nice, quick flavouring, just using a splash of concentrate (I use about 60-70 ml for a 1L bottle of kefir). Also recently threw in a few frozen raspberries which was a nice addition. Strained raspberry puree is nice too.
Lemon - again just from a concentrate.
Apple - Kids loved this one; have tried organic apple juice as well as a concentrate.
Apple/Lemon/Rasberry - various combos of these three flavours using the apple juice and concentrates.
Apple & Ruby Grapefruit
Sarsaparilla - Very, very nice (well, The OH and I think so, the kids aren't so keen). I use a little splash of the Cascade Sarsaparilla concentrate.
Cranberry - concentrate.
Fruit Cup - concentrate. An everyday favourite.
Lime - concentrate.
Apple and Blackcurrent - another concentrate and a fave of the kids.
Peach & Nectarine - Loo requested this one. I blended up a peach and a couple of nectarines with a spoonful of sugar and a splash of apple juice (to thin it down a little). A nice, subtle flavour, refreshing and light.
We also have a bottle of raspberry concentrate here so I'm curious the see what a splash of that tastes like when mixed with the kefir. I'll try it after we finish the next batch of Strawberry Lemonade (which won't take long with the 5 of us drinking it!). If we get a good crop of raspberries on our canes this year I'll have to try making Raspberry Lemonade with them. I'm also keen to try flavouring with lime, passionfruit and lychee. For the concentrates that we use I try and get natural ones, no artificial colours/flavours/preservatives and all that stuff. Actually, I'm just going to continue adding the flavours that we like to the list above as we try them all.
Anyway, we've all turned into big water kefir fans. The kids keep begging for more and The OH and I agree that it tastes so much better than commercial soft drinks.
Read about my experiments with Coconut Water Kefir and Milk Kefir. I also had a go at using some spare water kefir grains in milk to see if it would make milk kefir. It totally did not work. I think you definitely need to use proper milk kefir grains.
*I now use 2 x 3L Fido jars to make enough water kefir to last us a week (5 of us sharing 1L a day). I've found the recipe to be quite flexible. I tend to throw in about 9-10 scant tablespoons of white sugar; 2-3 tablespoons of jaggery; 3 teaspoons of maple syrup; and 1 tsp bicarb soda. Dissolve it in a little hot water, add cold water until the mix is cool. I then divide it between the 2 jars, add 6 heaps tablespoons of kefir grains and 2 lemon slices to each jar, and top up with cold water. It really is very easy once you get into a routine with it. When it comes to bottling it up, I usually pour a cup or so of apple juice as well as a splash (40-50ml) of concentrate/cordial into 1L swing top bottles; pour strained water kefir in; top up with water if necessary; refrigerate.
Sunday, December 2, 2012
Christmas Tree
We generally put our Christmas tree up the first Sunday in December. I mentioned it to the kids yesterday so of course they were going on about it every 5 minutes, driving me nuts! The OH got out and assembled our old playpen that we always put the tree in (stops kids and cats knocking it down all the time!). I then had to explain to Shmoo why it's called a playpen when generally the only things we've ever put in it are things the kids aren't so much supposed to be playing with (we bought it when Shmoo was a tiny baby but gave up on using it to contain a child virtually straight away). And then I spent ages this afternoon tearing the spare room apart in search of our Christmas decorations, trying and failing to locate the very specific bag that I always pack them into... my nearly-30-weeks-pregnant body is not thanking me for all that lifting! Of course, they turned up in a fairly open location but all tangled up at the bottom of a black garbage bag. It was only then that I started getting vague memories of The OH 'helping' me after Christmas last year, packing up the tree while I was out one day. So then I had to untangle all the tinsel and decorations (requiring the help of a pair of scissors, unfortunately) before letting the kids decorate the tree. Luckily we haven't done lights since Shmoo's first Christmas... they would have been a nightmare to untangle! But in the end the kids finally got the tree finished after their bath this evening and they love it. Their excitement was contagious, enough to keep me going 'til the job was done, lifting Beanie up despite my aching back and hips so that he could hang decorations from the higher branches :) Worth it. Worth it all. Their joy was just what I imagined when I was pregnant the first 2 times, little ones due just before Christmas but who never made it.
Friday, November 30, 2012
Mixed results as far as the orange flavoured kefir water went. The OH and I thought it tasted quite nice, slightly yeasty but pleasant and not too sweet. Actually, I think the boys thought it tasted okay too (Beanie couldn't get enough of it!) but, as they've never had soft drinks before, they weren't too sure about the fizziness. They kept coming back for more though and Shmoo was halfway through his second 1/3 of a cup before he decided that he didn't like it. I think that was because he didn't really like the sensation of burping bubbles up his nose rather than disliking the taste and I suspect he'll enjoy more another day, just in smaller amounts perhaps. Loo Bear kept returning for small sips of his; and Beanie downed all of his pretty much straight away and I had to tell him no more until tomorrow!
The bubbles in the kefir water were only very, very mild, nothing like commercial soft drinks, and The OH didn't even really notice too much of a fizziness. I think by doing a longer second ferment in an airtight bottle you can get more bubbles but I'm happy to forgo the bubbles (I put it straight into the fridge after bottling it) rather than risking an increase in alcohol content, plus it was fizzy enough for the kids as it was. And I'll definitely be keeping the first ferment under 24 hours for future batches that we intend to consume.
Our worm farm received a donation of about a cup of excess kefir grains today. To be honest, I was a little shocked when I opened up the pantry this morning and saw my kefir jar. Overnight I'd gone from having a fraction over 1 cup of grains in the jar back up to 3 cups (it was exceptionally warm overnight). I'm seriously starting to suspect that my kefir grains have secret plans for world domination...
Oh, Thank Goodness For That...
Thursday, November 29, 2012
The Kefir Grains That Took Over The World
The swing top bottles in the picture above are batch #2 (orange flavoured). The Fido jar is batch #3. Batch #1 was... interesting. I think it turned out okay, it tasted okay, just... I wasn't sure about the alcohol content as, well, life happens and the first ferment went for a bit longer than I'd anticipated. So the kids won't be getting a taste until I'm certain it's okay.
Batch #2 I ended up doing half white sugar and half jaggery with a slice of unpeeled lemon added to the first ferment. I made sure the first ferment went no longer than 24 hours. I bottled it with some fresh orange juice and it's currently chilling in the fridge. Will do a taste test tomorrow.
Batch #3 is currently brewing, same ingredients as batch #2. The real surprise though has been the kefir grains themselves. I'd read that they can multiply quite quickly but wow... they really do breed like rabbits ;) I think I have close to 3 cups of them already (think about it - I started out with two tablespoons eight days ago...). I know I can find good homes for some of them but considering you really only need a couple of tablespoons to get started, it means a lot of left over grains.
Apparently you can eat the grains and, from what I've read, they're quite a potent source of probiotics, so regardless of whether or not we give the kids the kefir water, we can include the grains in their diet. I am in the middle of making a batch of jelly with a few of the extra kefir grains mixed in. :) I almost feel a bit odd eating them... I've grown quite fond of them, like little pets.
'Mama' - Art by Beanie
Monday, November 26, 2012
Officially Kefir-ing
The OH went up to the shop to check the mail this afternoon (rural living = no home mail delivery!) and I was thrilled when he came back with two parcels for me. The small package contained my handy little stainless steel funnel with removable strainer, I do prefer stainless steel over plastic and this one is a perfect size. The absolutely huge box contained a couple of extremely well wrapped Fido jars and some swing top bottles. Actually, the three boys had crowded around for the parcel opening, jostling each other and me, and as I opened up the big box I told them there wasn't anything that they'd find particularly exciting inside, just some glass jars and bottles. Well, I unfolded the cardboard flaps and there were simultaneous squeals of delight from all three kids as they saw the mountain of bubble wrap. :)
After giving the funnel and one of the jars a good wash, I set about transferring over my booming colony of water kefir grains - I estimate that there's probably just under a cup of grains now... not bad for less than a week!. I used the same basic sugar water mix that I mentioned previously as the grains seem to be faring quite well in it (some of the grains manage to grow somewhere between 2.5-3 cm before breaking) but I tripled the quantity so that I ended up using 6 cups of water. I'm thinking that I might try occasionally adding a little blackstrap molasses to give the grains some variety... maybe alternate between that and the maple syrup.
Asthma?
Eczema, allergies, hayfever... will asthma be added to the list?
ETA - When they got home I asked Loo to describe what it felt like and he said that it felt like his chest was blocked... hmm.
Saturday, November 24, 2012
Here Comes Santa Claus...
By the time we'd thoroughly checked out the vacuum display, The OH and Beanie had moved a fair way up the line so we decided to stick it out. I got my mobile out and the boys took turns at playing games on it. Thank goodness for smartphones (the HTC One XL is all kinds of awesome by the way. Have had it for a couple of months now... a huge upgrade from my old <$100 Telstra smartphone. Love the android os).
And then it was our turn for a photo with Santa. I'd convinced myself that this year The OH and I wouldn't need to be in the photo, that the kids were old enough to not get freaked out my the big guy in red. Unfortunately Beanie had other ideas and while he was happy to say a shy hello and high five Santa, there was no way he was going to have a bar of sitting next to Santa for a photo, even with his big brothers there. Another family photo!
So that was our long, busy morning but the kids were happy that they got to see both Santa and vacuum cleaners. And we overheard that Santa likes a snack of milk and Tim Tams... just in case you were wondering what kind of nibblies to leave out for him this year ;)
Friday, November 23, 2012
Kefir Progress
My rapidly growing water kefir grains (slight golden colour because of the jaggery that I used in the sugar water) |
Kefir grains in fresh sugar water |
Water Kefir
Four or five years ago I started hearing about the amazing health benefits milk kefir. It sounded good but, having a child anaphylactic to dairy at the time, I wasn't about to start experimenting with milk. A couple of years ago I noticed that people were talking about water kefir, a non-dairy alternative that still provided the great probiotic benefits. I toyed with the idea of having a go at making water kefir but never seemed to get around to it.
Until now. A number of things, including an annoying bout of pregnancy-induced thrush, finally motivated me to order some water kefir grains (I got them from Tumbletree). And I'm really excited to see what those little grains do, especially after stumbling across some great info at Delicious Obsessions and Divine Health... even more so after I realised that the cute and really cheap Fido jars and swing top bottles I'd managed to score online last week are the same ones that Jessica from Delicious Obsessions uses to make her water kefir in.
So I'm just going to do a couple of batches to let the WKG grow until my lovely new jars/bottles arrive next week and then I'll start doing it properly with the whole second ferment and everything. I can't stop going to the pantry to gaze in awe at the WKG bubbling away and doing their thing in the jar of sugar water. They're actually doing it and looking all perky and happy, and it was only just over 24 hours (when I took the above pic). Very cool. And the boys are fascinated with how the grains eat the sugar and produce all those bubbles (which they have hereby called kefir farts *sigh*).
For the basic sugar water recipe I ended up kind of combining the instructions that came with my WKG and the recipe I found on Delicious Obsessions. I used 2 scant tablespoons of jaggery dissolved in a bit of hot water, topped it it up with cold water (total of 2 cups); mixed in 1 teaspoon of pure maple syrup, a tiny pinch of bicarb soda; and then tipped in the 2 tablespoons of WKG. I've never been a fan of dried fruit so I'm bit reluctant to add any at this stage, will see how it goes; and, as aforementioned child also used to be anaphylactic to egg, I still find myself being a bit cautious and reluctant to add the eggshell (I figure I can always add a bit to later batches if the grains seem to need something extra).
Can't wait to see how it all turns out and to start experimenting with different flavours during the secondary ferment!
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Yay!
Baby head down (ROA); placenta high up and anterior.
Profile of Baby Bear's head. Measuring 28 weeks. |
Friday, November 16, 2012
Ditto's Keep Safe Adventure
I was a little put off at first by the over-the-top, slightly condescending way in which Fairysafe spoke to the audience but I'm aware that lots of kids' TV/DVD shows use this tone and most people probably wouldn't be aware or bothered by it. Certainly it didn't have any trouble holding the attention of my 3 boys!
The DVD covers a number of topics and uses catchy tunes to help teach kids about 'yes feelings' and 'no feelings' and how those feelings might physically make them feel; good and bad secrets; private parts; saying 'no'; and telling someone that they can trust, amongst other subjects. Personally I generally don't use the term 'secret' when talking to my kids, preferring the term 'surprise' (ie. "I got Daddy a Bazinga hoodie for Christmas but don't tell him, it's a surprise" ;) ). There's nothing too specific either when discussing private parts, leaving any specific terminology up to the parents (private parts are defined as mouth, chest, between the legs and bottom).
I wasn't overly keen on the blanket statements regarding the people that children can trust (teacher, policeman etc) but given that pretty much everything comes with 'as long as you feel safe' I didn't feel it was such a big deal. And as with anything on this subject matter, the DVD shouldn't be treated as a stand-alone, teaches your kids everything they need to know thing. Parental involvement is so important! I was quite happy with it as a tool to facilitate discussion with the kids.
After we watched the DVD we went through the activity book and I gave the boys their mini Dittos (which they instantly fell in love with). We did skip a few pages in the activity book but the boys enjoyed what we did do and then they went back through it of their own accord later and did some of the colouring in and other activities (or scribbled as in Beanie's case). It was quite evident that they had actually absorbed a fair amount of useful information from the DVD that they were able to apply and discuss as we went through the book. Loo then requested to watch the DVD again so we had a repeat screening. :)
I'd say that Shmoo got the most out of both the DVD and activity book. Loo probably got more out of the DVD but still did enjoy the book. I'd recommend it for kids aged about 4 or 5 through to about 10. We also have the CD of songs used in the DVD but we haven't listened to it yet, probably will in the car tomorrow!
There's a bit more info about Ditto here; and the DVD, activity book and other resources are available to purchase from here.
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
First Cinema Visit
The last time The OH and I went to the movies was over 7 years ago, when Shmoo was still a tiny, portable, easy-going newborn. Then he grew into a toddler and we had another baby, and then another baby. Movie-going with 3 very young children... not exactly the most appealing of activities.
But the kids are older now and for some time we've been thinking that we should take them to the cinema so they can see their first big-screen movie. Preferably before the arrival of the next baby! So, this evening, we took the boys to see Madagascar 3. We have 1 and 2 on DVD which they all love so we were pretty confident that they'd like 3 as well. We deliberately chose a mid-week screening too, in the hope that it would be a quiet session and I also packed 3 sets of earmuffs and the CuddleLoop, just in case. I was tempted to take along the weighted blanket too but we only have a small one and I figured they probably would have ended up fighting over it.
It went really well. We bought a large bucket of popcorn for them to share and the woman who served us had the brilliant idea of giving us 3 smaller, empty cups so that we could give the kids their own little serves. We were also able to go into the cinema straight away, about 20 minutes before the movie was scheduled to start, which was great. We were first in so I was able to carefully select the row of seats and get the kids settled and comfortable. Turns out that mid-week is a great time to go as there was only one other small group of people in the cinema with us.
Madagascar 3 was a great movie to see on the big screen, even The OH and I enjoyed it. The only thing in it that I was really concerned about was the scene with the mounted animal heads on the animal control inspector's wall, I was worried it might me a bit alarming for the kids but it seemed to go over their heads (forgive the pun!). Shmoo and Loo sat amazingly still and just got really into the movie. Shmoo did wear his earmuffs for 3/4 of the movie though. Glad I brought them! Beanie did really well too, considering he's not yet 3 years old. He couldn't get over the fact that they'd turned off the lights and kept gazing up at the ceiling in awe and commenting on it.
Overall, a big success. We even let the boys have a go on one of those car-racing games after the movie. The boys will be talking about the whole experience non-stop now (and nagging us to go again... maybe we should make them pay for their own tickets?!?). Interesting to note also that my pregnancy hormones have well and truly kicked in... honestly, what mama gets all teary and emotional over her kids' first big-screen movie? :"> 8-|
Monday, November 12, 2012
In The Bag
Christmas:
Individual presents - they're each getting a Viewmaster set and a drawing kit (Lyra Groove coloured and graphite pencils, Stockmar block crayons, sharpener and eraser).
Family/shared/'school supply' presents - paint storage pots; 2 x wooden puzzles; solar powered rainbow maker; magnetic drawing boards; small wooden tabletop puppet theatre; set of jungle animal hand puppets; Giotto face paint pencils (we got sick of them using hard-to-remove felt pens to draw all over their faces, especially when a random squiggle on a forehead ends up looking remarkably like a swastika...). I have restrained myself and not included spare glue sticks and erasers in with their Christmas gifts. I'm sure my kids wouldn't mind in the slightest if I did include them but somehow they just don't seem quite exciting enough to me :)
Stocking fillers/Santa's contribution (he only gets credit for the small stuff ;) ) - they each get a little wooden magnifying glass; wooden animal clicker toy, wooden kaleidoscope/prism viewer thing; novelty pencil; handful of little chocolates.
Birthdays:
Baby Bear's Birth - 4 x wooden puzzles with storage rack and a DVD (yet to decide which one!) for the big boys to share; lovely, snuggly, super-soft teddy bear for Baby Bear.
Beanie - wooden pirate puzzle; wooden magetic ice-cream stand; noisy animal book.
Loo - set of dinosaur hand puppets; dinosaur novel (The Enormous Egg by Oliver Butterworth); set of nesting measuring cups.
Shmoo - wooden science toy kit; DIY vacuum science kit; rolling pin/biscuit cutter set.
Hmm, I may have gone a bit overboard with all the puzzles but they've all been really into working co-operatively to complete puzzles lately. It's so lovely to see them playing nicely and helping each other. Plus puzzles offer a much needed quiet and independent play option when there's a newborn to take care of...
Sunday, November 11, 2012
I cannot even begin to put into to words how this story makes me feel. It hits far too close to home. If he is guilty then I can only hope he gets what he deserves.
Please consider supporting organisations like Bravehearts and ASCA - they really do some wonderful work.
Saturday, November 10, 2012
The Acornians
Here are the little people that we made from the acorns we collected yesterday. We glued their hats on and stuck them on to spiralled up pipe cleaners. The boys had lots of fun drawing on faces and using nail polish to paint their hats (2 coats - one plain base colour and then a glittery top coat). They have decided that the two cute fellows in front are to be sent off to live with a friend of theirs.
The Acornians make sweet little finger puppets or pencil toppers, depending on how tightly you coil the pipe cleaners. Or they just sit there, bobbling their funny acorn heads about when little fingers poke them. :)
Friday, November 9, 2012
Paed Appointment - Loo Bear
Thursday, November 8, 2012
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Oobleck
The more force you apply, the more resistance you meet. Go gentle and slow, stop applying pressure, and the solid turns back into an oozing liquid goo. Hmm, there's a lesson in there somewhere.
*Those with sensory avoidance issues may need lots of encouragement; and a drop of some pleasant essential oil mixed in wouldn't go astray as the mixture is a bit smelly as Shmoo Bear so dramatically pointed out.
Aaaargh!
~X(
Called my OB's office again regarding the amnio results. The receptionist said that she spoke to pathology and they said that the results that were sent through are it, that's all they have... Except the OB told me that they were only the preliminary results and we're still waiting on the full report. So the receptionist is going to call pathology again and see if she can find out what's going on.
I'm assuming that we got the all clear for the FISH test, which is a good start, but that only tests a few specific chromosomes (13, 18, 21, X and Y, I think) none of which are involved with my particular translocation.
Hopefully they didn't just do the FISH test alone. That would be all kinds of frustrating and pointless.
This is so not doing anything to increase my faith in the hospital system.
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
How Sweet It Is...
Poor little Beanie had a very restless night last night and was so sensitive today. We sat down for a big cuddle late this afternoon and within minutes he dropped off to sleep next to me. Eventually I had to get up and make dinner and I asked Loo to be quiet and gentle around the snoozing Bean. I peeked into the lounge room 10 minutes later to see how Beanie was going and he was still fast asleep - and Loo had taken off his jumper and carefully tucked it around his little brother to keep him warm.
My dear, sweet little Loo Bear. Bouncing off the walls, all fiery, stubborn rage one minute and considerate, loving big brother the next. Wonderful, darling boy :)
Monday, November 5, 2012
At the Park
Saturday, November 3, 2012
Fire Truck
It's not uncommon for us to see a fire truck outside the local shopping centre around lunch time (I'm assuming they stop by to grab some lunch, rather than there being regular fire emergencies there ;) ). Nevertheless, the sight of a fire truck never fails to thrill the boys. Beanie waved enthusiastically from our trolley and shouted out "Hello, hello!" and the bigger boys climbed up onto the wall for a closer look.
Shmoo and Loo were excited when I suggested that I take a photo of them in front of the truck. I think it says a lot about their personalities - Shmoo leaned coolly and casually against the railing in the background with a hint of self-consciousness while Loo struck an over-the-top pose, hamming it up for the camera :)
Friday, November 2, 2012
You vs. Me
Beanie: What's that?
The OH: 'u'.
Beanie: Me?
The OH: The letter 'u'.
Beanie: The letter 'me'?!
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Please, please, please don't let him have it too.
Mama guilt overload.
:(
Finally got Loo Bear's genetic results back. He's inherited my balanced translocation. The GP's receptionist sounded so chirpy when she reported the results, "I think that's good isn't it?". I struggled for a moment before replying, "Well, it's not as bad as it could have been."
Truth is, I'm devastated. I know it could have been worse but all I can think about is the heartache the BT has caused me over the past decade and what it will mean for Loo and his future partner if/when they start a family of their own.
I can handle ASDs and related issues but for some reason this chromosome crap is so much harder.
Saturday, October 27, 2012
"The Idle Tower"
Image from here |
Friday, October 26, 2012
ECIS
My little Bean is doing so well. I can't believe how far he's come. The teachers and TAs at ECIS can see the difference too. He's been attending ECIS for about a year now and the change over that time, particularly in the last couple of months, has been amazing. They've seen him go from clinging to me, not talking, sooo many sensory issues and minimal facial expressions to this incredibly bubbly, chatty, cheeky, expressive toddler.
I am so grateful that he's had access to early intervention. It's something that I'll always regret Shmoo not being able to access. We only had one child health nurse raise any kind of concern regarding Shmoo and by that time I'd had a multitude of health care professionals repeatedly tell me (yet another one of those paranoid, first-time mothers that I obviously was 8-| ) that he was just very shy/quirky/must be normal because he was meeting developmental milestones okay. The early intervention and the (occasionally questionable) benefits of having an extroverted older brother to mimic in social situations has made such a difference to Beanie :)